
You’ve been together for so long.
You have a shared life.
You want so much to be together.
But you’re wondering if it’s hurting you both more to keep trying to work it out.
You’ve seen couples therapists before. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts.
But your relationship hasn’t gotten better. It’s gotten so bad that you’re on the edge of break up or divorce.
And still you wonder: is there something we’re missing? Are we going about it all wrong?
This is what Discernment Counseling is for.
This isn’t traditional couples therapy. It’s not “let’s fix everything.”
Discernment counseling provides you with the space to have a real conversation about what you’re dealing with.
Tell me what you’ve tried.
Tell me what works about the relationship and what needs to change.
We’ll figure out what steps you each need to take. Then we move forward from there.
Discernment Counseling isn’t about staying or leaving.
It’s about knowing – actually knowing – which choice is the right one for you both.
Some couples walk away with a clear path forward together. They have the tough conversations and connect in ways they never had before.
Others get to a decision they can live with, without the burden of wondering whether they gave it everything they could.
Either way, you’ll have the clarity you need to move forward from here.
Schedule your free consultation. We’ll discuss what’s happening, and you’ll have a chance to ask any questions.
If it feels like a good fit for what you’re needing, we’ll schedule your first session and get to work.

You were not made to endure the moments of struggle, grief, and pain alone.
When we get back alongside one another, we can also grow our joy, our aliveness, and our connection. That’s the work, and it’s the part I love most.
I see clients in person in Brooklyn and Manhattan, and online. If any of this sounded like your life, I’d be glad to talk.
Reach out to schedule your free 20-minute consultation.
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